18. Sensual Magic

Sex magic uses your sexual energy to fuel and manifest your intentions and desires.

The practice of sex magic may bring up or trigger different experiences or parts of you, especially if there has been any traumatic or unprocessed sexual experience in your history. This type of practice also has the potential to trigger feelings of shame, guilt, fear, judgment, etc. You may have even exiled or left this part of yourself out of your awareness for a while. It is time to reclaim this aspect of your power in a comfortable way as you feel called to do so.

The energy that is created during sexual sensual activity is undeniably powerful. This type of energy has the potential to create new life and may also be utilized to create other aspects of life. When you allow sensual, pleasurable orgasmic energy to flow through your body, you can use this energy to support you in your manifestation and creation of your life.

You may create different and aligned experiences with this energy by simply setting your intention and directing your energy to that intention. You may begin to set your intentions before, during and after you generate this energy.

This energy is not just about having an orgasm and thinking about your intention, although that can be a part of the practice. It is more about the full sensual experience.

Sex magic is about feeling safe in the space of pleasure and surrendering to what your body is feeling, desiring and calling for in the moment. By safely supplying this type of unconditional love and sensual experience, you open the door to this potential energy within you. This energy is always there, and is inherent within every human. You are now simply tuning into it to utilize it in a supportive way.

Sexual sensual energy is so powerful it is even manipulated and used against us. This taboo topic has been tainted over the decades and yet is one that is commonly used in music, movies, tv and advertising to influence our perceptions and choices.

We don’t seem to easily discuss the topic of sex, self pleasure, partner intimacy and anything related to this for a variety of reasons. The more we deny this part of our being we fail to utilize the potential this energy carries. This energy may even be used against you or be drained from you by denying its organic presence.

Instructions:

Begin by getting into a safe and comfortable space that is private, typically the bedroom or a similar space.
- If you want, you may have a partner present and work with them or you do this alone.
- Set the appropriate boundaries as needed. Let those you live with know you need some private time, close the door, block any animals at a comfortable distance, maybe silence the phone, etc.
Set your intention. Set your intention to channel your sexual energy for a specific goal or manifestation. Use these options and adapt to make your own:
- “I set the intention to connect to myself and my sexual energy in a safe way to the percentage that I feel comfortable with at this time to use this energy to support all that is in my highest and greatest good.”
- “I set the intention to connect to myself and my sexual energy in a safe way to the percentage that I feel comfortable with at this time to use this energy to support my goal of ___________________.”
Let yourself know you are safe and it is okay to do this as you settle into your space.
Acknowledge any resistance to this practice and let any aspect that is in resistance know it is safe. If you need to stop and come back when more of you feels ready you may do so. This practice will always be here for you.
Begin to let yourself think of things that turn you on or arouse you. Perhaps light a candle, put on some music, lay down and begin to feel your body. Let yourself relax and touch your body gently wherever you feel called. Perhaps rub your legs, hug yourself and love yourself in the way you wish to be treated. You may feel called to use some type of sex toy, wand or dildo to enhance your experience.
You may talk to your body and remind yourself of your intention as you let this energy begin to rise within you. You already are using this powerful energy in a positive way. You may continue to pleasure yourself and touch your body as you feel naturally guided to do so. Breathe and think of your intention and sending energy there. This isn’t about the goal of an orgasm but simply feeling pleasure in your body and guiding this energy towards your intention.
If you feel called to bring yourself to the completion of an orgasm, alone or with a partner, think of your intention throughout the experience and let yourself fully surrender to the energy flowing within you to the level you feel comfortable with.
You may do this as often as you feel called to as it resonates with you and supports you in realizing your intentions. Each time you work with this energy you may learn something new or adapt how you address this energy within you. You will learn more about yourself and begin to unlock this sexual energy and power that lives inherently within you.

If you are including a partner in this experience:

It is important to set boundaries and create a safe space together. This practice may span from really gentle touching and kissing, to intercourse and intimacy of all kinds. This is determined by you and what you are comfortable with at the time.
It is important to feel comfortable to be able to stop the experience at any time. Perhaps you have a code word to say if you need or want to stop the experience. This is not a negative thing, you simply have great awareness of the capacity in which you are able to safely feel this flow of energy within you. This creates trust and safety knowing you appreciate your own boundaries.
You may create your intention together and can even write these down as a way to begin the experience.
You may also engage with another and keep your intentions and the use of your sexual energy awareness to yourself if that feels most comfortable for you.

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